is he being unreasonable or is it my fault?

juz had a real heated quarrel wif my father.

he was playing wif my baby bro but kinda painful to the latter.

i then chided him for bullying him.in response he retorted to me to shut up.

i rebutted and asked how could i possibly..when mum had entrusted francis to me to look after.he insisted on his point that he was the head of household and no one had the rights to stop him from making the baby cry.

after exchanging a few more lines(more like devastating blows..),i was taken aback by the fact that he had actually regarded no one..except for francis as his son..he also said that my other brothers and i were nth more than a guest staying at his abode..once we turn 21..we're rdy to step out( he used gun3 chu1 qu4...) of the hse.

hatred developed in my heart..yet at the same time,i was deeply agonised by his replies.

how could he..being my father...have said all that?

wad abt the 18 yrs of education and care he gave me?all for naught?

my father,to whom i've alwaes looked up to and full of admiration for,was very angry that no one had regards for him.when he said this,i realised that it was true after all.my brothers and i had nv really sat down for a heart-to-heart talk with him.nv maintained any eye contacts with him too when he attempted to talk to us.it was like he was...transparent...

furthermore,he explained that whenever we had things to recount,we would not tell him but mum first..worst still..not even tell him when he asked us wad happened.this was also quite true.but seriously,i felt that if i had told him,he would have reprimanded us or give critical remarks,for which my brothers and i would have loathed.

dat's why we would nv tell him our personal stuff,heart affairs or any impt decisions we would want to make..

i guess we are all afraid of him.

"So to u..im nth more than a guest staying at ur hse?rdy to go off when im 21?"

"yes.so now..u DUN have the rights to stop me when i play with francis!"

with this,he trudged back to his room..



to all pple,plz..i beseech u to cherish wad u have now..make an effort to share the joys and sorrows wif ur parents..they would love to hear wad u've got to say..in fact..they want to hear them..

im off to the park now for a walk..

emotional wounds can be healed this way...i hope..